Men are from Mars.
I’m not gonna remove my previous post, it serves as a reminder for me that i’ve had that experience once.
Today, i’ve hit another level of enlightenment from Aunt Agony trapped in a male body.
Here’s some facts for us women to face it (from the men’s point of view):
1. Spending time with you; next to you, i don’t need to talk or do anything, i’m spending time with you even when it’s doing nothing.
2. When someone else does ask him out, it appears as a “break” from you. So it you ask him out, it might appear to him that he’s still gonna be doing it with you regardless if you two go out or stay home, so he chooses to stay home.
3. To openly discuss emotion would be seen as a sign of weakness or “less of a man”, also it will make them feel like they are being attacked.
4. I just wanna shut up and leave it alone, hoping that you’ll forget about this and not to find fault with me again.
5. I’m working and spending almost everyday with you and now i can’t even go ________ *insert activity*or do something when i want to? (Kinda linked with point 3.)
6. When guys go out with other guys, it’s a “guy’s outing” thing, whereby they can let their guard down and unleash the vulgarities, and whatnot that they don’t think falls nicely on female ears. Therefore, the “situation” doesn’t allow us girls to come along.
7. They have violent guy friends who can’t accomodate to your slow gaming, so it’s better you don’t tag along even if you know how to play that game. Unless you know you’re much better than them?
There you go, lucky seven to be aware of. Plenty more i suppose, these are the few i’ve came to know about and am trying to accept it. Nonetheless, the above mentioned are talking about majority of the men out there, how they behave and think up there. If your men falls in the minority group, good for you, you found the close to perfect guy.
